50 Fun Date Ideas (For When You’re Sick Of Just Going Out To Eat)

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1. Poetry reading under a waterfall: Write your own poem, read classic poems or even song lyrics to your beloved. They probably won’t even be able to hear you because of the waterfall so don’t worry about your public speaking skills.

2. Read each other’s Tarot Cards: Things might get a little real, but it’s a lot of fun.

3. Go to the Nature Conservatory: Just be with the trees and the breeze and get to know your date outside of hectic city-scapes.

4. Go on a Kayaking double date- romance and friendship on the water, plus you’ll get a good ab workout.

5. Read to Each Other: There’s a 90% chance your date is going to find this sexy.

6. Play Board Games at a Coffee Shop: Great for competitive lovers.

7. Go Thrifting: Found objects are great conversation starters and thrifting can make for a fairly inexpensive…

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13 Ways You Know You’re Dating A Grown-Ass Man

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1. You know where you stand. You are his girlfriend or you are a girl he’s dating but either way he’s not scared to define it. He’s not afraid that a girl will cry and run away if she doesn’t hear what she wants to, he wants a mature woman because he is a mature man.

2. You don’t have to prod him to become a real adult. He’s self motivated to improve on his own. If there’s an area of his life that needs improvement, he’s working on it long before you notice it.

3. Texting with him is peaceful. Sometimes you have conversations. Sometimes you make plans. But it’s never a power struggle of who initiates and who texts lasts. It’s not fishing for compliments or security. It’s simply a short form of communication.

4. He calls his mom. You don’t…

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23 Painfully True Lessons You Learn By Age 23

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It’s my party, and I’ll reflect on the greatest life lessons I’ve learned thus far if I want to.

1. You are not your failures or rejections. You are not the boy who couldn’t love you, the job you couldn’t get, the school who wait-listed you.

2. You are, however, your passions, your convictions and the company you keep.

3. Blocking toxic people out is hard, healthy and needed. You may regret blocking people out. But you will ultimately rejoice in a toxic-free life.

4. You are unique, and your experience with people is unique. Your relationships can never be repeated, replaced; only remembered.

5. Have the courage to be yourself all the time.

6. Show your love. Especially to your parents. We are all living on borrowed time, don’t waste the moment you could have said, “I love you, Mom and Dad.”

7. Don’t be the life of…

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Out of the Blue

I felt so nervous while watching television. I don’t know if it’s because of the topic which I don’t want to happen to me. For goodness sake, the feeling isn’t good. 😦

I searched about what causes the sudden nervousness. I don’t know whether I’ll believe what it says or not. I don’t have the symptoms written there anyway.

Does anyone felt the same thing? I mean, this is the first time it happened to me. What did you do to feel better?




23 Things Only Girls With Guy Best Friends Understand

True indeed. 🙂 I can relate. Hahaha! 🙂

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(1) People will always assume you’re dating. They will ask you repeatedly. Gush about you. Demand that you give them a chance (because it’s obvious you’re meant to be) and tell you that you should totally date.

(2) Some girls will hate you. There’s always that girl who’s vying for your best friend’s attention. Maybe because he’s hot, or because he’s the lead singer of the college band. And he will always have a sizable fan following, including some overly infatuated girls. They will hate you. Bitch about you. Call you names. Give you the cold shoulder. Anything, because they can never shift the spotlight from you. It’s always you first, before any of them, in his eyes.

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(3) People will joke about how they are your bodyguards. At least they seem to  think it’s a joke. It’s not. These will go WWE on anybody to…

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Top 10 Reasons You Should Travel After Graduating College

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As a recent college grad, a lot of people have asked me why I chose to go abroad. Some couldn’t even seem to fathom the idea of why I’d want to live elsewhere instead of starting my career and life in the States. But really, at 22 why would I want to jumpstart spending the next 40 years of my life working 40 hour weeks waiting for those 2 weeks of vacation to spend each year?

Don’t let the ‘American Dream’ get in the way of your dreams. You don’t have to wait until you’re 65 and retired to see the world—live while you’re young.

The best time to travel is right now and here’s why.


1. You’re Free!

You just spent the last 19 or so years of your life in school—take a breather. A new chapter of your life is about to start and it’s good to take…

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Benefits Being Relationship Your 20s


16. You have a confidante, best friend, and lover, all wrapped into one.

– Perfect description for our relationship. 🙂


18. Even when you’re without makeup and wearing sweats, he makes you feel beautiful.

– I’m not used to go out without any super light foundation to even out my skin tone and to hide my super huge eyebags, take note super light lang. 🙂 and I’m not even comfortable to have a friend in our house if I’m full of sweat.